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My Blog "Patria Nueva- USA"is mainly directed to new legal immigrants to the USA to help them change their perspective, blend into their new society and become an asset to our new great nation with Christian principles and focusing their eyes in our Lord Jesus Christ.
As an additional service to them I also cover other topics, such as pet care from my 43+ years of experience as a practicing veterinarian.

You are cordially invited to visit my blog and participate in it, so welcome to it.

Sunday, September 30, 2012

WISDOM FOR PARENTING..

EVERY CHILD NEEDS FIVE THINGS FROM THEIR PARENTS/GRANDPARENTS

* Unconditional love
* Regular instructions: ex. spirituality, manners, civility, respect.
* Guidance, consistent discipline and correction.
* Praise in public, discipline in private. Never punish out of anger. Correct disobedience. Always  be there for your children.
* Give them a solid example for them to follow. They need to learn a strong value system.

PRACTICAL GUIDELINES FOR TODAY'S PARENTS:

*Teach children the difference between trust (earned) and love (unearned).
* Teach them to think critically.
* Teach them which things are worth fighting for.
* Pray for your kids and teach them how to pray.

LAS CINCO COSAS QUE TODOS LOS NIÑOS NECESITAN DE SUS PADRES/ABUELOS

* Amor incondicional.
* Instrucción constante: ej. Espiritualidad, buenos modales, buenos hábitos, civilidad, respeto
* Orientación, disciplina y corrección, alabanza en público, disciplina en privado. Nunca castigue cuando esté enojado, corrija la desobediencia. Apoye siempre a sus hijos.
* De un buen ejemplo, para que ellos puedan imitar. Ellos deben formar y aprender un sólido sistema de valores.

GUÍAS PRÁCTICAS PARA LOS PADRES;

* Enseñele a sus hijos cual es la diferencia entre tenerles confianza ( debe ganarse ) y amarles incondicionalmente.
* Enséñesle a que siempre piensen con sensatéz.
* Enséñesle cuales son las cosas por las que deben peléar.
* Siempre ore y reze por sus niños y enséñesle a que ellos también lo hagan.



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